The metaphorical manual for transformation of a woman from person-mode to lady mode is exposed, illuminating fashion instructions, speech decorum, expectations of silence, and forced little accommodations for the comfort of men. Thus develops a second language, "woman in a meeting.” Recorded at TEDxBaltimore January 2016.
Alexandra writes the ComPost blog for the Washington Post newspaper, offering a lighter take on the news and opinions of the day. She is the author of "A Field Guide to Awkward Silences" as well as the 2014 O. Henry Pun Champion.
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